In each of the six phases there are two ways we participate in the host world:
There is connection between the two kinds of participation. In fact, they are two versions of the same thing. In Phase 1 Connecting, we grow mainly through special-growth participation activities. In Phases 2 through 5, special growth participation continues on a large scale, but becomes less and less play-like, and more and more in the nature of serious relational interaction. Lifestyle participation during Phase 2-5 increases steadily and becomes increasingly natural. In Phase 6 Ever Growing, growing participators grow mainly through lifestyle participation.